Got back from Ohio last night with our purchases, but minus our truck. Yesterday morning I talked to the Ford dealer and described the problem to him. Most likely a head gasket or a crack in the block or head(big $$$ to fix). The smoking gun was coolant in the oil, and lots of white smoke out the tail pipe.
So we went with renting a U-haul and leaving the truck at their storage center. At $35. a month it gives me a little time of what to do next with the truck.